Eff the How: How I Was Able to Go to London & Have 13 Women Join My First Meet Up!

In the past, I’ve stopped myself at “the how.”

For five years when I was working in corporate, I was afraid to be bold or take risks because I didn’t know how I would be able to help people and get paid for it.Just like me, so many others become paralyzed by not knowing HOW their dreams will come true and therefore, they don’t take action.If this is you or ever has been you, I have something to say:

Your brain (and my brain)—our human brains—are too small to magically map out the best way for our dreams to become a reality.

How do I know this?

Because yesterday, I had an incredible experience in London and it was ALL because I literally ‘effed the how.’

A year ago, when I had the big, bold dream to come here to host an event, I had no idea how it would happen.
I didn’t know when it would happen. I didn’t know the details of how it would happen. All I knew was that it WOULD happen.
And now I’m in Europe and IT’S LITERALLY HAPPENING.

Just like that, it’s real. And the best part is, is that it feels completely natural. Like it was totally meant to be all along.

So if you’re really struggling when it comes to figuring out ’the how’ of your dreams, try these simple steps:

1.) On a scale of 1-10, how strongly do you believe your dreams can come true for you?

Get honest with yourself. Do you really truly believe deep down that you can have everything you’ve been dreaming of/aiming for?

If you rate close to a 10, great.
If your rating falls under a 6, get busy finding evidence that your dreams CAN come true for you. After all, I’m willing to bet that similar dreams have come true for others—so why not you?

2.) Do a brain dump of the action steps you could take to get yourself closer to where you’re going.

Pick ONE that you can do today. One simple thing.
Maybe you do a quick Google search to see who’s already living your dreams. Or maybe you take note of the people around you who are already doing what you want to be doing. Mark whatever you find as evidence that your dreams are getting closer to you!

3.) ALLOW the Universe an opportunity to serve you/work for you. 

Believe me when I say this—you don’t have to know the how.
I know you would love to know.
I know you would feel SO much better if you knew.
But what if I told you that what you have planned for yourself is nothing compared to what can happen if you really open yourself up to receive?

Alongside taking action, you must cultivate the knowing that the right people and the right opportunities will show up for you exactly when they’re meant to. Trust that the how is being supplied in ways that you wouldn’t or couldn’t possibly understand with your limited view of the map.

Like I said, I envisioned coming to London over a year ago and these past 48 hours have been beyond what I could have EVER imagined. Coming here has been so natural. I’ve felt completely in my power—like I totally deserve to be here; like the Universe always knew I WOULD be here.

And the best part? I’ll be back. I decided today that I’ll be back again this year. I know deep in my bones that I am the right person to be sharing the message of prosperity and infinite receiving worldwide and even if I don’t know how I’ll make it all around the globe to share it, I trust that with faith and action, my dream WILL come true.

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